Quick Tip (Novelty Bag): The Autism Files
What do you do when the queue is too long and your child is getting agitated?
What do you do when there is a traffic jam and your child is in the back seat, squirming?
These are situations that can make all parents uneasy, but if you are the parent of a child with an Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) it can make your blood pressure rise as you wonder if the situation will get out of hand.
When agitation and stress increases in a child with ASD, you need to put a break in the circuit, otherwise a tantrum of epic proportions may occur.
One circuit breaker that parents have found useful is to produce a bag of sensory toys and items when their child is showing signs of greater than usual stress. It is best if this bag is only brought out on special occasions (a novelty bag for emergencies) for maximum effect. You can keep a bag hidden in the car, have a small collection in your handbag, and take a bag with you to waiting rooms.
ASD children often seek out sensory stimulation (eg. the feel of squishy balls or soft material, things that flash, things that spin, things that light up, things to chew or suck).
When you have identified your own child’s sensory needs via a sensory profile, you can tailor the sensory toys to suit them. When you observe the warning signs of too much stress, you can bring out the novelty bag and provide them with a sensory distraction.
My son with ASD loves to chew on things, especially when stressed. We have evidence of his excessive chewing all over the place (t-shirts with large holes, erasers with little pieces missing, a bunk bed with hundreds of small marks that look like a rat has been chewing the wood).
My sensory bag included such things as rubber chew sticks, squeeze balls,, and even chewing gum, and lollipops. I found that sucking on a lollipop was often the only way he could get through some aversive experiences, such as the hairdressers.
He also loved all things that spin, so the kit included toys with spinning lights and parts.
An Occupational Therapist can help you with developing a sensory profile and recommending sensory toys. There are also many internet sites that sell sensory toys.
Note: There are other ways to distract/divert children’s attention with things such as Ipads and computer games, but I will talk about that in another post.
18 thoughts on “Quick Tip (Novelty Bag): The Autism Files”
Note: it is possible we do also have a real rat in the house 😉
I find these articles very interesting, Gabrielle.
A friend had a guinea pig or hamster (I forget which) loose in her house and it ate its way through drawers, and clothes for a couple of months…
Sorry, I just had to say the flowers are just too beautiful for words!
Yes, Michael certainly captured the beauty of the flowers – I hadn’t even noticed them in the garden very much until he took the photo 🙂 thanks adeeyoyo
I love this: I’m a teacher of children with ASD and this is such a simple, practical way of dealing with a very complex topic. Must recommend it to a few of our parents….
Thanks Kate – after Michael’s diagnosis I read lots of stuff about ASD but some bits of advice were way up in front on being effective, so when I write my Autism Files (there are quite a few of them now) I try to write the best bits of advice that worked for us. I will do a collection one day – ebook or something – for distribution. You’ll find the rest of the Autism files under Categories (left column, bottom of the blog) and Autism Files – or here https://gabriellebryden.wordpress.com/category/autism-files/ Feel free to distribute 🙂
as always Gabe, this is straight up, wonderful advice. and great to hear that you are planning an e-book. this needs to get out to schools!!!
Thanks Graham – have to finish writing it first – haha – definitely one day.
Oh yes our sensory bag is a lifesaver. I don’t take the whole bag with me for most outings now days – instead I have a couple of select items in my handbag. There is also a box of special items always in the bottom of the school bag.
But for special occasions – birthday parties, plane flights, movies – our sensory bag is a must have.
Thanks so much for stopping by and sharing your experience Marita 🙂 Birthday parties were always very difficult for my son (and the movies) – we have never got on a plane (but will one day).
Veey, very interesting. I always learn so much from these posts. And I love the flowers too!
Thanks Selma 🙂 Those flowers always amaze me. He cracks me up with his photos – the other day I was looking at a whole series of photos he took of very boring scenes (an open cupboard etc.,) and was wondering why he would take those photos – and then I realised he had hidden a plastic Stig (character from Top Gear) in each photo – his head would be peeking out from the clothes basket etc., – just hilarious.
Fascinating to learn these things about autism.
Thanks Aletha 🙂